[first published in the monthly congregational Notes, for September, 2018.]
It is surprising, but still encouraging, that in this age of apparent gender confusion we still had Fathers’ Day as a special event this year. Perhaps it is only a matter of time before it is re-named “Partners’ Day” or “Special Person’s Day” or some such neutral term. We are told that this will enable those without fathers to be included and there have been calls to remove or re-name Mothers’ Day for similar reasons. As everyone knows, the plain truth is that no-one exists without either a mother or a father, so the call to re-name or remove these days is really about the nature of family and whether people are free to define family in their own way, without even the constraints found in the natural world. Someone will say, “We overcome the constraints of nature every…continue reading
[first published in the monthly congregational “Notes” for August 2018]
Hardly a week goes by without the news bringing us reports of new attempts to push political correctness into everyday speech and actions, not least in the area of gender and its perceived separation from issues of human sexuality. The latest push is for the use of gender-neutral pronouns—now called gender-inclusive to make them more acceptable (because ‘inclusion’ is a good thing). So the State government, building on a 2016 directive for public servants to avoid the use of terms such as ‘husband’ and ‘wife’, now prefers the general plural ‘they’ in all cases where previously ‘he’ or ‘she’ would have been used. From overseas we read of threats to penalize students who do not submit to this new linguistic fashion and university staff suspended or dismissed for not conforming. So now there is a whole range of suggested…continue reading
[first published in the monthly congregational Notes, for July, 2018.]
In Parts 1 & 2, we covered our relationship to God in Jesus Christ, how we should live, and our relationships with others. When we understand and embrace these truths, our preparation is essentially done—now go on and live to the glory of God, at peace and without fear! However there are things that will happen after our death which will involve others, and some forethought now may help them when the time comes.
Although wills are read after one dies, they are written beforehand. Having one implies that there is property to be distributed and because “the love of money is a root of all evil,” (1 Tim 6:10) they can be a source of great division and argument. Marriage being what it is, it seems to us that unless there are some special circumstances the great bulk…continue reading