[First published in the congregational Notes for January, 2014.]
One of the great privileges we have as Christians is the real sense of belonging that comes from knowing that we have been gathered up as “the children of God” [Jn. 1:12], the number of which is so great that it can be likened to “the grains of sand on the seashore” and the number of the stars in the sky [Gen 15:6 & 22:17]. Also, as His adopted children we are precious in a particular sense as we have been redeemed with a price personally paid by the Son Himself, and applied to us by the mighty work of the Holy Spirit. We are part of history’s “great crowd” [Rev. 7:9]. Someone may point out from life’s sad experience that we can still be lonely and lost in a crowd even as we acknowledge that we have a lot in common with everyone else in the crowd. While that can be true here on earth, I dare say that no-one will be lonely in heaven’s eternity where our fellowship with God and one another will be perfect. But this possibility of earthly loneliness is surely one reason why God has ordained that Christians see themselves as part of a body; interconnected and inter-dependent. This is the simple message of Romans 12 and 1 Corinthians 12: a body simply cannot function if each part insists on staying aloof from other parts and both the body and the part will suffer.
Our age is showing the unhelpful consequences of a few centuries of growing individualism. There are other reasons, to be sure, but an affluence unheard of in past generations and advances in portable technology have combined to reduce our day by day need to interact with others. We can shop, bank, study, communicate, play games and even travel [vicariously] all from behind a single small screen and all alone. These things are not inherently wrong and sometimes they are extremely helpful. For all our challenges, who would really want to live even 150 years ago without but unless we take opportunity to redress this imbalance, particularly in our attitude to the Church, we will be the poorer for it. Listen as the Spirit of God instructs us from the books of Romans: “… so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another [Romans 12:5]. Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honour giving preference to one another [12:10]; Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion[12:16]. Owe no one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law[13:8]. Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way [14:13]. Now may the God of patience and comfort grant you to be like-minded toward one another, according to Christ Jesus [15:5], Therefore receive one another, just as Christ also received us, to the glory of God [15:7]. Now I myself am confident concerning you, my brethren, that you also are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, able also to admonish one another [15:14] . Greet one another with a holy kiss. …[16:16].”
We cannot miss the point: congregational life has a communal aspect that cannot be filled from the privacy and isolation of our lounge room. Nor will it come naturally so we must seek it deliberately and prayerfully. We will be blessed by the flow of life from Christ our Head as we do. However we must always ensure that our “one another-ness” is not something which excludes the stranger or the visitor. If they are Christ’s we must show them that they are already one-another with us because He is the only lasting basis of our unity. If not, we pray that they sense something which the Spirit will use to draw them to love Jesus and His Church.